Flowers

Free relationship

Wedding

Is marriage a purpose in a person's life?

      Is it obligatory to get married?

          Monogamy or Polygamy?

         

                      free relations

                             Wedding

                                  Religion

                                        Philosophy

                                             Freedom

                                               

       We are children, free of responsibilities, free living our childhood and adolescence, we are under the protection of parents everything seems beautiful, we do not have many responsibilities, only rejoice life. The years go by very quickly and without to understand one becomes a teenager, starting the first erotic stirrings need for companionship and simultaneously the first sexual frustrations have not been things like we thought like we dreamed.

      Young people and everyone else passed the age of puberty and youth all fell in love all disappointed, this phase of one's life where pass a circle of a constant search without knows well what is looking constantly are looking leading sometimes to think that finds what he wants once again does not find what he seeks his soul and be disappointed. He lives a little odyssey spiritual and mental suffering for professional rehabilitation and emotional balance, to at least to find what they want and will offer him this lustful completeness, a process that can if it lasts for years, there are still people in age of 50 do not know what they are looking for what they want.

     It is in the human nature to look for in all his life, looking for the right job you like and will offer you necessary living, looking to find a suitable person to make a relationship, looking for all life God of nature, death, generally looking answers to thousands of questions on the status of. Constantly looking solutions to any problems to provide solutions and improve living standards.

     Everyone is different and this is indicated by the way they deal with different situations and circumstances that occur in life. We are all different and this of course depends on our childhood from our first small community that is our family and then the school and the community that help us shape our personality throughout our lifetimes and beyond. Each person has his own temperament and sees things from his own perspective as one perceives and understands, for example another man separated for infidelity in marriage else would forgive .... a simple example of everyday life.

    We grow up with some standards whether they are from our family our mother our father either from school or from society, a large part of course nowadays in shaping standards plays and television and the Internet where young people adopt mimicking behaviors some large Stars for how they handled similar situations in real life, not only in their virtual vivid false life.

     We live in a free society, anyone can do that wants to handle things as he thinks best. But how free is by starting the abuse of freedom. We are free to where begins the freedom of another person, and the abuse of freedom begins right from the point at which violate the freedom of another person sharing the same geographical space, the same house, the same office, the same neighborhood and not only.

    The youth puberty is free to get into relations with the other sex without commitments as was the old times one that had to be married especially girls, is no longer considered taboo for both the man and the woman. Enter into romantic relationships until job rahabilitation and looking after something which seriously say marriage.

   Many young people have the relations model themselves parents whom admired by children and would like themselves to experience the relationships of life in the same way, other young men fall in love and establish relations with people that match heroes experienced through movies without having any relation to reality, fall in love with actors, fall in love with people like some actor just because you have a nice appearance, similar to their standard "heroe" just as they received through the TV or the internet who say heroe specific attitudes and behaviors "cast people" on various issues of life. A writer of a script often touches the solutions of the "strings" of young people and they begin to have them as role models throughout their lifetime because they hacked them through the tender childhood, we all know the impact of television in shaping the personality of young people and how it can re become injurious to children and adolescents, the scenario of a cinema movies it is still just a script expressing the view and the creative imagination of a great perhaps artist writer is far from the reality.

    How Free are the youth really in love, when developing their personality and their belief about love through the media, through television through the standards of ideal lovers as presented through a fictional film? How free are the young people to experience the true nature of love when you are constantly in a fake life, a fantasy? a virtual life? a false life? Young people looking at their whole your life a person who fell in love on television in the movies. Looking for years no such partner and break down many relationships until you find someone like those. But is life so? He wantsin his life so many relationships to one found the longed integration and why not happiness? Completed through the many relationships? Ending one through a meaningful relationship? Are too many questions and certainly will not be able to cover in one article or a whole book because the issue of human relationships has always been an issue that humanity in eternity, never could anyone give an answer to absolutely.

     A relationship or Marriage?

    The age at which conveniently located each person plays a key role in whether someone wants a relationship or marriage. Nobody can say for sure what is right, everything depends on what he wants both partners always and ever only what wants one of them? What they want both, they want a relationship? They want marriage? There can not coexist relationship between someone who wants a relationship with someone who wants marriage. Other choose to be in a relationship until you fall in love to love much someone or someone who can not live away in order to marry. Others never marry. Others want to get married and can not because someone else wants a relationship. So is all our own matter of individual choice, without this meaning that we do the right thing. But what is right?

     Who is the man to go to live permanently in free single life? That is bad; Why marry? Is something better than marriage? it is best marriage of a free single life? Freedom is not a better one would say? Relations concluded with great ease and then spoil scrapped many divorces, frequent visits to psychologists and psychotherapists to treat mental problems of love from a relationship dissolved, the mental problems of a great love that led to marriage and dissolved? Both a relationship and marriage can be dissolved as easily created. What is man looking for? It's a vicious cycle of human characteristic they do not know what they want and still looking through the relationships to find what they are looking to complete, are looking to find something that does not know? What is this something that plagues both men and women and tortured throughout their life to look for?

     Questions that only religion and philosophy has tried to give some answers, and lead the man to the path of self-awareness to know that the deepest "BE" and strive to fill the gaps and complete. But religions are many and there diverging views on marriage and relationships free. So again we are led to the free choice of each individual to decide how they would like their relationship. Religions lead to monogamy or polygamy according to the faith of each.

 What is the role of philosophy?

     Philosophy dealt much with existential issues and involved many thousands of years, trying to provide solutions and answers to esoteric and inner psychology, what is that to which likes the soul of the male and the female of the same? Philosophy with deep skepticism has tried to give answers to the nature of man and woman. Certainly it is a mystery, a miracle just as there is male and female. Philosophy accepts that apart from the material body exists and the spiritual and psychic. Therefore concluded two new sexual relationship only with their bodies can very easily enter again relationship with another body. Two new united physically and spiritually will limit their partners where there is physical and spiritual communication. How many people can fit spiritually? With too many yet sexually and spiritually with specific people at the same length "spiritual" let's say wave. What happens now if two young people enter sexual relationship sexually, mentally and able to connect and the psychic part of "our Being"? There are few people who are able to connect the body with the spirit and soul of man, and found that the body material is sexually and spiritually and mentally as a whole managed to unite only with an entity. Thus in conclusion we see that man is complete only with a man bringing together and the soul that sees him from brute nature. And the next step is what? Environment without sexoualism, leaves the material body and the carnal pleasures and the spirit soul is one with all same substance like a fire that unites all flames together to create a larger fire, or like water that grows .... ..... gather all the drops together as "Particles" and joined to the substance water.

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